Bullying

What is bullying?

This is the Anti-Bullying Alliance’s definition of bullying:

The repetitive, intentional hurting of one person or group by another person or group, where the relationship involves an imbalance of power.

Bullying is often aimed at certain people because of their race, religion, gender or sexual orientation or any other aspect such as appearance or disability.

Bullying can take many forms including:

• Physical – for example: pushing, poking, kicking, hitting, biting, pinching
• Verbal – for example: name-calling, sarcasm, spreading rumours, threats, teasing, belittling.
• Emotional – for examples: isolating others, tormenting, hiding books, threatening gestures, ridicule, humiliation, intimidating, excluding, manipulation and coercion.
• Sexual – for example: unwanted physical contact, inappropriate touching, abusive comments, homophobic abuse, exposure to inappropriate films
• Online/cyber – for example: posting on social media, sharing photos, sending nasty text messages, social exclusion

Not all friendship fallouts are bullying – sometimes professionals use the term ‘relational conflict’.

How to respond to bullying

The DfE produced guidance for all schools in 2017, this outlines the government’s approach to bullying, legal obligations and the powers that schools have in regard to preventing and tackling bullying. 

Every school must have measures in place to encourage good behaviour and prevent all forms of bullying, both inside and outside of school (including online). These measures must be communicated to all pupils, school staff and parents/carers. Some schools choose to include this information in their behaviour policy, others choose to have a separate Anti-Bullying Policy. It is important to work with parents and carers when responding to bullying. 

All staff in schools should consider the context within which incidents and/or bullying behaviours occur. Schools/professionals should consider the motivations behind the bullying behaviour and whether it reveals any concerns for the safety and welfare of the target. The child who has displayed bullying-type behaviours should also be supported.

Witnessing or being a bystander to bullying incidents may also affect a child’s well-being. School staff/professionals should proactively support those children in processing their experiences too.

The Anti-Bullying Alliance propose a 3-step model for schools responding to bullying [PDF].

Things to think about when creating a written record

It is helpful to build a timeline outlining information about the bullying incidents, the dates of those events, the individuals involved, and the child’s account of the event.

If applicable, be sure to include any screenshots/pictures, medical records/reports if there was treatment for physical injuries as well as any psychological assessments from mental health, (police) reports or audio recordings.

Top tips when recording bullying – effective practice (anti-bullyingalliance.org.uk)